The nature of the divorce process involving litigation is to fight each other to win.  Each party hires their own attorney to fight in court for the most they can get, without thinking about what each party actually needs or wants.  This is not necessarily in anyone's best interest, especially when children are involved.

What is mediation and is it for you?

Mediation has emerged over the last decade or so as an impressive alternative for couples to resolve their disputes through a negotiated settlement.  With the help of a mediator, a divorcing couple will make their own decisions about the issues surrounding the separation of the couple. 

The Court system is even using mediation in their environments.  Supreme Court in Nassau County is requiring parent coordinators and therapists to be paid by the litigants to help in settling the cases even after a significant amount of money has been laid out to attorneys.  Family Courts are beginning to use mediators to deal with custody, visitation and support issues even when you have already and continue to spend money on attorneys.

Studies have shown that children fare much better, in divorce or separation, when both parties  work together to dissolve a marriage.

The mediator, as a neutral party, is positioned to intervene on behalf of the children and promote an agreement which is in the best interests of everyone involved.

You make your own decisions about your future, including property distribution, access to children, custody and parenting time arrangements, health insurance, and spousal maintenance (alimony).

How much does it cost?

Mediation is significantly less costly, faster, and more importantly, it keeps a separation from turning into an ugly battle where everyone loses.

The average mediation takes from 4 to 6 hours.  Once the mediation is completed, our attorney will draft the legal Separation Agreement or Divorce Stipulation for which there will be a modest fee.

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My spouse and I can barely talk to each other, how can we mediate?

Mediation will work for couples who are amicable, as well as those who find it difficult to communicate with each other.  With the training our mediators have, we are able to diffuse the negative feelings and help each of you present your needs.  At that time, all that is required is a willingness to look for a fair way to settle the issues that must be decided.  Mediation often helps people learn to communicate better.